Manual changes on operator-managed deployments dont get rolled back

[MaxRink]

What steps did you take and what happened:
If i manually edit an operator-managed provider deployment the operator never detects and rolls back those changes.
This can lead to a) config being forgotten or b) having an actually invalid deployment after a clusterroll if the deployment is broken

What did you expect to happen:
The operator rolls back manual changes on fileds of the resources it owns

Anything else you would like to add:
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Environment:

• Cluster-api-operator version: 0.12.0
• Cluster-api version: 1.8.1
• Minikube/KIND version:
• Kubernetes version: (use kubectl version):
• OS (e.g. from /etc/os-release):

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